Marriage should be heaven on
earth. That's what God intended it to be. No, there's not many marriages
that are. But you wouldn't plant a garden and expect to get good
vegetables out of it, if you didn't keep the weeds out. It takes
work. If you have never planted a garden, you may have to read some
books about gardening. You may like to ask a couple that has a good
marriage for answers to problems in marriage.
I say it takes 10 years of
marriage to get to know each other and at 15 years, marriage gets
good. That's a long time, but you don't have to wait that long,
Follow God's pattern for marriage and you can get there quicker.